Thursday, October 04, 2007

Gettin' Naughty -- Role-Playing

Let’s talk about spicing up your sex life. Often sex becomes routine or becomes secondary to the other commitments in our busy lives. There are many ways to spice things up—toys, lingerie, taking it out of the bedroom. A great way to bring back the fun and spontaneity is through sexual role-playing—taking on roles to carry out a sexual fantasy.

How elaborate you make the scenario depends on what you and your partner feel comfortable with. You can go with something simple and spur of the moment or an elaborate costumed scene. While many of the most common sexual role-plays involve one partner taking power, any role you desire can be assumed.

Props and costumes can be fun, but are not necessary. What does matter is choosing a scenario that both partners find exciting and are comfortable with, then relax and have a good time. Explore parts of yourself that you may normally keep suppressed by blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. When role-playing, you can be anyone you choose so shed those inhibitions and explore your wildest fantasies. But remember, role-playing is not just about being someone else for an evening and can help both of you reveal hidden desires.

Don’t feel stressed about maintaining your role during the entire session, see where it takes you and be spontaneous. If you are nervous about role-playing, try assuming a new sexy identity, along with a new name, for your playtime. You may find that role-playing will build trust between the two of you. The beauty of role-playing is you get to anyone you want and can lead to slowly diminishing inhibitions.

Some popular role playing scenarios…
Delivery or Repairman/House wife
Escort or Stripper/Client
Picking up a stranger

Your brain is your most powerful sex organ. Be creative and seduce your mind by getting your creative juices flowing. The sky’s the limit when you play safe and set your inner hussy free. Unleash your passions!


NathalieGray said...

Call me corny, but me likes the pirate scenario a lot! And don't get me started on the mysterious sheik or the knight with a big sword...*le big sigh*

Ann Wesley Hardin said...

I've always had a soft spot for picking up a stranger. LOL.

Ciana Stone said...

Mysterious sheik!! Ah sigh, one of my favorite. Along with Riverboat gambler and the gal he wins cause she can't ante up. And then there's the hunky pool man scenario, and the plumber who looks like the Rock, and the EMT who arrives in time to breath life back into the poor heroine, oh and the big game hunter, and ... uh, hmmmm, am I giving away entirely too much here?

Ann Wesley Hardin said...

What a hussy!